 Are
you new to Wife Swapping? Wife swapping couples come from all walks of life, all ages, races &
religions but have one thing in common - they like to enjoy themselves and view sex as a pastime
to be enjoyed with other people!
We suggest that you sign up and make use of our forums where
we have a FAQ section dedicated to newbies and you will quickly realise that most couples have
the same questions & doubts as you have now. By reading forum postings and also reading some
of the stories here based on real wife swap experiences
you will get more of an understanding as to the true nature of the wife swap!
If you do meet up with another couple it is often best to make the first 'date'
a social meeting in a pub or restaurant just to get to know each other a bit first and then if
you all get along and feel comfortable you can arrange another evening to take things to the
next level. It's not a case of keys in a hat nowadays!
Do's & Don'ts:
- Couple - that's what you are and it must be a joint decision
to try wife swapping, you must both be completely happy & comfortable with the idea
- Alcohol - a drink to steady the nerves and being sociable is
fine but you don't want to get drunk or you wont be able to perform properly, you might do
something you'll regret or embarrass yourself
- Limits - as a couple decide beforehand what you will & wont do
and before any 'action' starts make sure that all partners are aware of the boundaries in place
for the evening's swap
Jealousy -
it may be difficult to tell before you try but if either of you feel at all jealous then tell
the other one immediately and agree that it is not for you as it wont stop if you try again!
- Safe Sex - you must be responsible for your health and it is
probably advisable to use condoms, definitely first time round with a new couple but many do
prefer to go bareback!
- No - means no, always respect others and if anyone is uncomfortable
stop!
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Our most important piece of advice to any couple thinking about wife swapping is to talk about
it lots before you try it for real. Thinking about it and even fantasising about it can be a
great turn on but are you sure it is what you both want?
Remember wife swapping must be for both of you! |